“In 1750 George Whitefield wrote: “After all, those who will live in peace must agree to disagree in many things with their fellow-laborers, and not let little things part or disunite them.”
“Upon the death of George Whitefield, John Wesley wrote a memorial sermon downplaying the two men’s doctrinal differences.”
“There are many doctrines of a less essential nature… In these, we may think and let think; we may,” ‘agree to disagree.’ (All above quotes from Wikipedia)
One of my favorite chapters in the New Testament is Philippians 4. God has used His word in this chapter to encourage me in some stressful situations in my life.
In this scripture Paul writes that he is troubled about two women, Euodia and Syntyche. They are both fellow servants of God, but they are having a serious disagreement or misunderstanding over some issue. The problem is not stated in this account. Paul’s desire is that they work out this issue.
Paul also asks that fellow believers help these women. (Sometimes God calls us to be peacemakers mediators to others.) I believe the news of this dispute saddened Paul as he loved them both.
When we allow spiritual issues to disrupt the harmony in our churches and lives, God’s Spirit is hindered in His work. Satan is delighted when this happens because it can ruin the witness of the individuals involved.
Is it essential that we all interpret or believe God’s word the same? We have many denominations in this world who hold different views on the interpretation of the Bible, and that’s why we have thousands of different churches. We cannot force others to believe the way we feel in our hearts is right. Ultimately, we are all accountable for accepting Christ into our own lives and how we live.
If our loved ones do not know Christ, we are encouraged to share the simple gospel truth with them. However, if they do have Christ’s Spirit within them because they have placed their trust in Him, it is the work of the Holy Spirit to bring about God’s desired results in their lives—not us. It is hard for us to step back and allow God to work when we feel they are on the wrong path.
Philippians 2:12-13 KJV – “Wherefore, my beloved, as ye have always obeyed, not as in my presence only but now much more in my absence, work out your own salvation with fear and trembling. For it is God who worketh in you both to will and do of His good pleasure.”
Prayer: Dear God, forgive me for trying to do the work of your Spirit in other believers. Help me to be faithful in sharing your word with the lost, reading your word and praying for those in my life who need your guidance. Amen